06 Aug Towards an awakened couple
Love is one of the most recurrent themes in our society. We talk about it all the time, trying to find the miracle recipe for finding it, making it last… Some find their happiness, others don’t. A new kind of couple has emerged: those who live their love in full awareness, awake. These “new” couples, as opposed to “archaic” couples, have come together to share common experiences, while remaining free. This union, built on the energy of love and shared values, allows them to flourish together. They support each other, respecting and caring for each other. The people who make up these new couples have already made an inner journey, they have learned to love themselves, and so will be able to love others, unconditionally. They relate to each other without judgment and, on the contrary, listen to each other in order to heal any individual wounds. There’s a great deal of empathy in “awake” couples, who communicate a great deal in order to analyze and understand each other’s emotions. They understand that the feelings of fear that block personal fulfillment are the result of previous wounds, not the fault of the partner. Once you’ve understood that, you can live freely, because the only thing that’s important is to help the other person on his or her journey, not to find someone to blame. Awakened couples therefore enjoy great freedom, because they love themselves and are not afraid of no longer being loved. Both partners can enjoy outdoor activities and interact with other people, safe in the knowledge that they won’t be judged. Instead, they will be understood in their need to interact with other people. One of the most important elements in the conscious couple is to stop waiting for love from outside. If both partners no longer feel this dependency, they can act for themselves without fear of hurting the other. Since both will feel loved, they won’t need to look elsewhere. The two entities of an awakened couple don’t hide anything from each other and discuss, with the utmost transparency, the emotions they may be feeling. They know they can tell each other anything, because they’re no longer afraid of not being loved. On the contrary, they can help each other to understand and overcome an emotion if necessary. They support each other and help each other to grow, with no attachment disorder.