Let’s imagine that the child that we have been is still slumbering within us, sometimes showing without us knowing, in expressions that come from its own will. At the best it is our enthusiastic, curious, creative, whimsical, spontaneous side, at the worst it is our tyrannical side, that is, when this part of us feels fear, anger, frustration, injustice, powerlessness. The small child is always dependent on others to feed his vital needs. He can only feel safe with someone else, an adult referent. One speaks then about an attachment bond or an attachment figure. We may think that when we are adults, we no longer need our parents and other people to make us feel safe. This is the case if the attachment figures in childhood made us feel safe. In some families this was not the case. Emotional dependency, addictions, eating disorders are often the consequences of a deep sense of unsafety.
Reconnecting to the inner child, to the little one in us, is a deep work of healing aimed at soothing the suffering. The therapeutic framework allows all your wounded parts to find a secure space of unconditional listening, in the therapist that I am but also, and especially, in the state of expanded consciousness that leads you to find this dimension inside you. You become more and more autonomous.
THE 5 WOUNDS
Abandonment, rejection, humiliation, injustice, betrayal, are probably words that resonate with you more or less intensely. According to Lise BOURBEAU, the author of the best selling book “The 5 wounds that prevent us from being ourselves”, our soul incarnates in a family where those wounds are revived, because in our previous incarnation we have been not able to heal them. Whether believing in reincarnation or not, some people find the meaning they need to transcend those five wounds or to live with them in a more serene way. The kind of support I propose takes this into account.
During hypnotic trance, it is possible to go back to old memories, from early childhood, or even a previous life which can explain determined problems of the present, and clarify certain repetitive patterns.
Far from any logic, regression to past lives is done only with people open to it. If the answers they obtain during these sessions allow them to live better, the goal will be reached.