{"id":8292,"date":"2025-05-28T17:00:31","date_gmt":"2025-05-28T15:00:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.cabinet-hypnose-a-paris.fr\/healing-the-wound-of-betrayal-consequences-symptoms-and-solutions\/"},"modified":"2025-05-28T17:00:31","modified_gmt":"2025-05-28T15:00:31","slug":"healing-the-wound-of-betrayal-consequences-symptoms-and-solutions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cabinet-hypnose-a-paris.fr\/en\/healing-the-wound-of-betrayal-consequences-symptoms-and-solutions\/","title":{"rendered":"Healing the wound of betrayal: consequences, symptoms and solutions"},"content":{"rendered":"

My name is Laurence DELINOT and I’m a certified practitioner of humanistic hypnosis and NLP. Over the past 15 years, I have accompanied nearly 1,000 people who came to me to heal emotional wounds<\/span><\/a>. I’ll be talking here about the wound of betrayal, one of the five wounds of being listed by Lise Bourbeau.<\/strong> <\/p>\n

Find out in this article how to identify this wound<\/strong> and the impact it has on our relationships. What’s the best way to heal?<\/strong> Start working on yourself so you don’t have to deal with past traumas, thanks to humanist hypnosis and symbolic therapy, as well as eye movement therapy.<\/p>\n

What is the wound of betrayal?<\/h2>\n

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Psychological definition of betrayal<\/h3>\n

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Like all emotional wounds, the wound of betrayal is born in childhood. <\/b>To grow and develop healthy self-esteem, children need to establish a bond of trust with their parents <\/b>, and even more so with their attachment figure. Children need their parents’ unconditional commitment to a globally consistent pattern of behavior that will reassure and support them. <\/p>\n

There are therefore implicit and legitimate expectations on the part of the child <\/b>, which can often be overturned. The parents’ expectations of the child – <\/b>sometimes hidden, other times explicitly expressed – will weigh on the child, who has no choice but to adapt. This bond of trust is sometimes broken and experienced as a betrayal. <\/p>\n

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What is the mask associated with the wound of betrayal?<\/h3>\n

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According to Lise Bourbeau, each emotional wound (betrayal, rejection<\/span><\/a>, abandonment<\/span><\/a>, humiliation<\/span><\/a>injustice) is associated with unconscious behavior, which she calls the \u201cmask\u201d. This mask acts as a protection against the wound. For the wound of betrayal, it’s the mask of the controller. <\/b>As the name suggests, the person who lives deeply with this wound needs to control situations and others, as well as themselves, because it’s impossible to trust.<\/p>\n

Here are the traits that can be found in this person:<\/p>\n