{"id":7246,"date":"2024-01-25T15:56:13","date_gmt":"2024-01-25T13:56:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.cabinet-hypnose-a-paris.fr\/?page_id=7246"},"modified":"2026-04-14T13:25:04","modified_gmt":"2026-04-14T11:25:04","slug":"adult-attachment-disorder","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.cabinet-hypnose-a-paris.fr\/en\/adult-attachment-disorder\/","title":{"rendered":"Adult attachment disorder"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Trouble de l\u2019attachement chez l\u2019adulte : gu\u00e9rir gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 l\u2019hypnoth\u00e9rapie<\/span><\/h1>\n

[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1703274543848{padding-top: 30px !important;padding-bottom: 20px !important;}”]My name is Laurence DELINOT and for nearly 15 years I have been working alongside people who wish to use hypnosis to transform behaviors linked to adult attachment<\/strong> disorders.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1702303220055{padding-bottom: 20px !important;}”]Discover here the nuances of attachment<\/strong>, from secure types to anxious, avoidant and disorganized attachments. I explain the symptoms of this disorder<\/strong>, and present the different therapies available<\/strong>.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1702290078021{padding-bottom: 30px !important;}”]Don’t hesitate to make an appointment for a first hypnosis session in our Paris 15th office or by teleconsultation.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text]Book a slot<\/i><\/a>[\/vc_column][vc_column width=”2\/6″ css=”.vc_custom_1702283852439{padding-right: 50px !important;}”][vc_single_image image=”6092″ img_size=”300×300″ alignment=”center” style=”vc_box_border_circle_2″ border_color=”white” css=”.vc_custom_1702287570469{padding-top: 60px !important;padding-bottom: 20px !important;}” qode_css_animation=”element_from_fade” qode_hover_animation=”zoom_in”][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css_animation=”” row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css=”.vc_custom_1702305457326{margin-top: 60px !important;margin-right: 50px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;margin-left: 50px !important;}” z_index=””][vc_column][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1736176919005{padding-bottom: 30px !important;}”]<\/p>\n

Qu\u2019est-ce que le syndrome d\u2019attachement ?<\/h2>\n

[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1763118298429{padding-bottom: 20px !important;}”]C\u2019est un comportement r\u00e9actionnel et \u00e9motionnel r\u00e9p\u00e9t\u00e9 qui cause une souffrance psychique<\/strong> dans le cadre de la relation \u00e0 l’autre, que ce soit dans la relation amoureuse ou dans les relations sociales en g\u00e9n\u00e9ral. Il est r\u00e9current de d\u00e9tecter un trouble de l\u2019attachement suite \u00e0 une rupture amoureuse<\/span><\/a>, un chagrin d\u2019amour ou deuil amoureux.[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1703274610569{padding-bottom: 20px !important;}”]We have to go back to childhood to understand the origins of attachment disorders. Newborns and toddlers are entirely dependent on adults to satisfy their basic needs. Babies<\/strong> instinctively express their needs by crying and crying out<\/strong> for the parent’s attention, so that they can be fed, reassured, changed, cuddled and interacted with. The little one is a person in his own right who needs to be listened to, supported, protected and understood, and in this dynamic, he will naturally become attached to the parent who will provide him with the emotional security he needs to grow well and develop good self-esteem<\/strong>. In attachment disorder, the child has not been able to develop this strong bond for a variety of reasons.[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1776165740166{padding-bottom: 20px !important;}”]C\u2019est le psychiatre John Bowlby qui dans les ann\u00e9es 1950 d\u00e9veloppe la th\u00e9orie de l\u2019attachement apr\u00e8s avoir longuement observ\u00e9 les orphelins dans les orphelinats d\u2019Europe et des Etats-Unis. Bowlby r\u00e9v\u00e8le quatre types d\u2019attachement. Le premier d\u00e9finit comme l\u2019attachement s\u00e9cure<\/span><\/a> et les trois autres comme attachement ins\u00e9cure.[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1702304239819{padding-top: 30px !important;padding-bottom: 30px !important;}”]<\/p>\n

Quels sont les 4 types d\u2019attachement ?<\/h2>\n

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L\u2019attachement s\u00e9cure
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[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1702305537858{padding-bottom: 20px !important;}”]As its name suggests, this is the bond that has enabled the child to develop a secure relationship with others<\/strong>, thanks to an attachment figure who has responded in a stable, consistent way to the child’s needs. In this way, children can develop self-confidence<\/strong> in relation to the outside world, which they discover as they grow up with a solid emotional foundation. Of course, along the way he may experience relationships that damage this bond. But its type remains safe.[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1702305664314{padding-top: 20px !important;padding-bottom: 20px !important;}”]<\/p>\n

L\u2019attachement anxieux
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[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1702305589803{padding-bottom: 20px !important;}”]The child has had to deal with theemotional instability of his or her parents<\/strong>. The mother, most of the time the main attachment figure, can be both overprotective<\/strong> and therefore very present, even invasive, and intrusive, with anxiety-provoking messages for the child. This hyper-protection is in fact a psychological absence, as it does not meet the child’s real needs. The child experiences the paradox of lack through hyperstimulation.<\/strong>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css_animation=”” row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css=”.vc_custom_1702306077400{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-right: 50px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;margin-left: 50px !important;}” z_index=””][vc_column][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1702305630311{padding-bottom: 20px !important;}”]<\/p>\n

L\u2019attachement \u00e9vitant
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[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1722938801823{padding-bottom: 20px !important;}”]The child has had to grow up with parents who are physically and psychologically absent<\/strong>. Little or no involvement in the relationship, sometimes with rejection behaviors rejection<\/span><\/a> towards the child.[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1702305707308{padding-bottom: 20px !important;}”]Care can be minimal, to the point of neglect. You could call it an empty shell. No loving gaze, no tenderness, no stimulation to awaken the child. The small child has integrated the fact that he can only rely on himself to regulate himself.<\/strong> He then minimizes his needs and may even cut himself off from his emotions.[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1702304353602{padding-top: 20px !important;padding-bottom: 20px !important;}”]<\/p>\n

L\u2019attachement d\u00e9sorganis\u00e9
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[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]Also known as ambivalent attachment<\/strong>, it’s a mixture of both anxious and avoidant types. The child has no stable reference point in the relationship with the attachment figure.<\/strong> They live in constant contradiction with a parent who alternately reassures and frightens them.<\/strong> The child is generally subjected to physical and\/or psychological violence in the family environment. Neglect, incest, beatings, humiliation…[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]Given the unpredictability of the adult’s behavior, the child can’t have a relational strategy. It has no way of regulating emotions.[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1702305776697{padding-top: 50px !important;padding-bottom: 30px !important;}”]<\/p>\n

Quels sont les sympt\u00f4mes du trouble de l\u2019attachement \u00e0 l’\u00e2ge adulte ?<\/h2>\n

[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]The consequences are numerous and, in some cases, devastating. The child suffers emotional deficiencies that will have disabling repercussions in<\/strong> future social and love relationships<\/strong>.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css_animation=”” row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css=”.vc_custom_1702306123915{margin-right: 50px !important;margin-left: 50px !important;padding-bottom: 20px !important;}” z_index=””][vc_column width=”1\/3″ css=”.vc_custom_1702305846224{padding-top: 20px !important;padding-bottom: 20px !important;}”][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1702306109334{padding-bottom: 40px !important;}”]Understandably, in most cases the child will develop guilt and low self-esteem<\/strong>, as he or she is unable to question the parent taking care of him or her, lacking the intellectual capacity to do so and being dependent and powerless. If no outside adult witnesses and intervenes to keep the child safe, the child suffers and develops limiting beliefs about himself and the outside world.<\/strong> The result is strong emotional reactions, with demands and expectations that cannot be met in interpersonal relationships, needs for fusion and rejection of tokens of affection, difficulty or even impossibility of commitment or even intimate relationships.[\/vc_column_text]Make an appointment<\/i><\/a>[\/vc_column][vc_column width=”1\/3″ css=”.vc_custom_1702306047348{margin-left: 50px !important;padding-top: 20px !important;padding-bottom: 20px !important;}”][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1771350473754{padding-bottom: 40px !important;}”]D\u2019autres sympt\u00f4mes tels que :<\/p>\n